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John Smith

Daily writing prompt
What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance?

We’ve played this name game before and my story is pretty boring.

But just in case someone is newly following my blog or missed the previous post about names, my middle name is Joanne.

I was named after both of my grandfathers, Carl (Carla) and John (Joanne).

Naming babies after family members seems to be a big thing in my family. I kind of followed suit with my kids but now I’m not so sure I love the idea.

I remember being slightly disappointed, even as a small kid, when I learned where my names came from. Having considered myself “Gramma’s girl”, I was sad that I hadn’t been named after her, my paternal grandmother. Plus I was never really close with either of my grandfathers. They were both great people, but I didn’t form a close bond with either.

I ended up naming my older daughter after my Gramma. So at least I have that I suppose.

I think I mentioned before that the grampa I was named after, John, was John Smith. A real life John Smith. Born in Scotland and moved to Canada with his family around the age of two.

I love men but I don’t feel like talking about men today, on International Women’s Day.

See? Had I been named after either of my Gramma’s today, this post would have been fire.

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Mom, at her nursing graduation…Happy International Women’s Day!

4 responses to “John Smith”

  1. My mum was opposite, she didn’t want anyone named after anyone, and was annoyed when she found out my eldest brother was named after one of my Dad’s uncles (Chris). I think myself and my younger brother were named after my mums favourite actors at the time, Robert Redford and Geoff Bridges, but mum denies this!

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    1. Yeah I think if I could do things over, I’d have given them completely original names, individual names!

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      1. Yeah, but it doesn’t really matter, I don’t think a name defines anyone. Sometimes you see a strange name but 2 minutes after you meet them all that is gone.

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      2. Yeah that is true!

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