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The first glimpse

I dug up my old calendiaries from the 90’s this evening and as promised, plan to share bits and pieces of my oh so boring upbringing. If you’re into reading about not really ordinary yet benign, plain jane little old me as a teenager, then you’re in the right place.

The oldest calendar is from 1990, apparently my very first entry was July 3 of that year and I wrote faithfully nearly every single day for a few years. I’m still unsure of the format in which I will share the entries and if I even want to share this boring stuff, but for tonight I will share the entries from this day on those years.

July 18, 1990

“Gena went to Pam’s. Dad, Corinne and I went for a ride. Harley Klatt came over in the evening. He used to live here but moved away to BC about 8 years ago.”

Gena is my younger sister, Pam was a neighbour and she was a friend of Gena’s, her only friend really. Corinne is my older sister. It’s funny to think we hung out a lot as a family, even when we were teenagers. Some teenagers on Friday nights were with friends or partying but we were often just spending time together as a family. Not that we didn’t party, because we did but just not often.

I recall a conversation with a good friend in junior high and she said she was shocked at how much time I spent with my dad and didn’t really understand what she meant. She said she rarely even had a conversation with her own dad. I found that pretty startling and counted myself lucky.

July 18, 1991

“Babysat at Karen’s again. Got $10. It cooled off a bit. Took the tractor out east for Dad.”

TEN DOLLARS!! That’s crazy! Karen and her husband Larry lived just a mile down the road from us. They did not have kids of their own so at some point decided to adopt from an orphanage in Romania. The sweetest little brown eyed baby boy you’ve ever seen, Andrew. I was his main babysitter for years and spent many Friday and Saturday nights falling asleep on their couch, waiting for them to come home from a night out.

July 19, 1992

“Went to Pamela Bradford’s wedding in Dauphin. It was nice. Got a new pair of shoes. Didn’t go to the supper or dance. Mom and Dad went to Sushelnicki’s 25th anniversary.”

Super boring entry even though it involved a seriously busy social schedule. Pamela Bradford was/is my dad’s cousin Bill’s daughter. Their family was three girls, just like ours. Don’t recall the new shoes but I’m sure they were cheap and ugly lol. Sushelnicki’s were neighbours and old friends of my parents. It was rare that my family attended social outtings, much less two in one day.

I’m really unsure if there will be anything juicy enough in these entries to keep a reader interested. It seems I wrote about what was happening rather than how I felt. Although I did see an entry on a January 1st that said my New Year’s resolution that year was to find a boyfriend. And the second part of the sentence said something like “ha, let’s see how long that takes!” I was in grade 11.

I’m telling you I was no super model.

17 responses to “The first glimpse”

  1. Interesting thank you for sharing 😊

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  2. Lol well I don’t know about interesting but thanks a million for saying so, and for reading!

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  3. I wish I’d saved some of the things from my past. Cool that you did.

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    1. Yes! These many years later especially, makes these calendars even more valuable and precious!

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  4. !! You’re very pretty if I’m allowed to say from the other side of the world. I always wondered what life was like being the pretty one between your sisters, you never hear the answer to that, I suppose people don’t want to rub anything in. I would think it might be a strange dynamic. Like mothers who are prettier than their daughters or vice versa, you always wonder. I’m sure your sisters had feelings about it! Bit of a taboo subject though.

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    1. Actually, I always thought my elder brother was the better looking one growing up (plus he’s taller than me). But then a gf told me once that his wife was jealous of her because I was the better looking one, which just totally blew my mind because I think that’s what she thought. Strange how we have things set in our heads.

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    2. Taboo for sure and thanks although I’m not sure who is the prettier one, beauty’s in the eye of the beholder right?!
      My daughters are both much much prettier than I am and I’m perfectly happy with that, makes me proud really 🤷🏻‍♀️

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      1. Yes, that sounds fair enough if you’re a good mother. I suppose there are bad mums out there that you read about in stories or see in movies, but you sometimes wonder these things. By the way, my gf is ex a long time ago, she was always super jealous of other girls to a ridiculous degree, so maybe that played with her mind a bit (or a lot). That was always her thing. I’m sure it had never crossed my brothers wife’s mind at all, but it just blew me away to think she thought I was better looking. Eye of the beholder, yes, you’re right.

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  5. When I read Alan Rickman’s diary/book a few years ago, I was waiting for him to get deep about things, but he mostly kept memory of his social calendar that way. It’s more fun to read yours. 🙂

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    1. Lol that’s funny 😂
      People would put my book down pretty fast too if they expected much in terms of depth. 🥹

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      1. oh dear, not at all what I meant. The book had its own unique charm. 🙂

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      2. Lol no no!! I didn’t take it in a bad way at all ☺️☺️☺️☺️

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      3. 🙂 Okay, good, because I obviously love your writing and the things you write about!

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      4. Thanks Stephanie and I very much reciprocate!

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      5. ❤ Ty.

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    Thank you for sharing these wonderful memories with us 🙂 I think you look good on this photo!

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    1. Thanks so much for reading 🤗

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