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Say too much

Daily writing prompt
If there were a biography about you, what would the title be?

Apparently using humour in the title of a biography can be risky, and given the laugh return I get from the jokes I make in class to my students, probably not the best idea.

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I’ve been really dreaming of summer lately, this morning’s temp was -36 and the “feels like” with the wind -46 Celsius

I Googled “how to title a biograpy” just now and besides the humour thing, one other tip is to be self depracating, which I think I can handle. Also, it said to be controversial. I know I can be that.

One of my quirks is that I say too much. I actually didn’t realize this until my kids started making fun of me for it. I was always proud of the fact that I am such an open book, but apparently at times, too open.

I tend to overshare or over explain things to people who probably don’t care and are left wondering why I’m telling them what I’m telling them and am I some kind of weirdo ie. the McDonald’s drivethru person.

Case in point, I had a bunch of weird dreams one night, one involving a coworker. Not a coworker I work alongside or anything but just someone who’s also an Instructor and whose cubicle is on the same floor as mine. I see him around and say hi but don’t really know him.

I wanted to forward him a work related, union related email because I had questions about it. So I did, and at the end I said “oh by the way I had this random dream you were in the other night, dreams are so weird”. He didn’t reply. Like not even to ask what the dream was.

I was so mad. Didn’t he care? I wasn’t trying to flirt with him, I just wanted to tell him the dream. Apparently he didn’t want to know. So I emailed him again and told him what the dream was. I had to, it was like an unfinished conversation and it was really eating at me.

Now he avoids me and won’t even look at me. Which I think is funny and I told another coworker about it and he said well maybe he’s worried his wife will get mad or something. I said it was a dream! You can’t help what you dream. I have dreams about lots of people and yes, I tell them if I get the chance. I’d love to know what other people dream about me, if they ever do.

Anyway, I’ve gone and made things awkward with this guy but oh well. Sometimes I say too much.

So yeah, my biography would be titled “Say Too Much”.

19 responses to “Say too much”

  1. That’s too funny. I like that felt the need to share the dream so it felt there were no dangling ends! I wish I was more like that. Embrace it!

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    1. Yeah funny til you’re being served with restraining order lol

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      1. It’s not happened, honest!

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  2. Photos with the obligatory sunglasses help a lot!

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  3. oh no! :/ well, there are the types that are like that but there’s also types that are cool with explanations and overshares. I personally don’t mind it at all as that’s a way of getting to know people. i find that ppl like that are also more genuine.

    i’m not gonna answer this prompt but one of my exes told me that I should title my biography “Turns Out, I Was The Asshole All Along” LOL

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    1. But what do exes know about anything right?!
      And thanks for the reassurance that I’m not a weirdo.

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  4. That’s funny. I thought you were going to say that your tombstone will read, “She over-shared.”

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    1. Lol I better watch it or it might!

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  5. Brilliant. You’re a much needed friend to those of us who keep everything inside. 🙂

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    1. Thanks Stephanie ☺️

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  6. Material for standup comedy, CJ and you are bold enough to say it. 😄 I tend to be the one that strangers tell everything to. What would that title be? 🤔

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    1. Oh geez then I would definitely say too much to you then…yours might be called “don’t tell me!”

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      1. haha I find the sharing endearing. I am a great listener. 😊

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  7. That guy sounds uptight! I’m like you, I overshare, but I like people who do that and I don’t want to be different!

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    1. Yes you’re right, he must be lol…definitely the problem is not me ☺️
      It’s good to hear you are similar, that makes me feel better!

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      1. He’s definitely the problem, not you! 😁 Some people take themselves so seriously!

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  8. Some people are default machiavellian. I hate it. Just chill out.

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    1. I had to Google machiavellian so thanks ☺️
      Okay well I’m glad you are on my side lol

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