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Straps and spanks, but I loved it

Daily writing prompt
Who was your most influential teacher? Why?

It’s funny to think about how much the times have changed with regard to schools and teachers in my little lifetime.

In my early years it was still acceptable for teachers to spank us if we misbehaved or get sent to the office for the strap, which was even worse.

I did get a swat on the butt by my Grade 2 teacher, Mrs. Linklater, when she stepped out of the classroom and returned to find me out of my desk and socializing. I’d been spanked by my Dad plenty of times but the one paddle on the butt by Mrs. Linklater in front of the class was completely humiliating.

I think it was made worse by the fact that Mrs. Linklater was not just my teacher but a close neighbour. Her husband and my Dad were friends. Later on in life when she retired, she took up photography and did the photos for my wedding.

I recall the Grade 5 teacher, Mr. Mateika, who was very well liked by both parents and students, putting a female student over his knee and spanking her. Can you imagine? I think there might have been a slight uproar about that incident, if only by the student herself.

Mr. Mateika was very comical and had us in stitches constantly. He was the teacher who convinced our Grade 5 class we were going to the Rose Bowl parade to play our recorders. Just the thought makes me laugh still today. What a sicko to get a bunch of 9 and 10 year olds excited about getting to travel and take part in something like that.

I want to say that I recall being sent to the office for the strap. But I’m not entirely sure I’m dreaming that memory up. Which, I don’t know why I would, so maybe it’s true.

If you did something especially sinister, you were walked down to the principal’s office and held out your hands, palm up. The principal used a leather strap and you received a couple of stinging lashes with it.

Today, it seems absolutely preposterous. Insane that was allowed to happen. Mid-80’s this was. Not the 1950’s.

Having said all that, I loved all of my Elementary, Intermediate and Junior High teachers. I can’t really think of one over the others that I revered. I had straight A’s and though I complained about school, it was a safe, secure and fun place to be. I was voted Valedictorian of my Grade 9 class at our graduation, the June before we moved onto High School.

High School took place in a different and larger town, with all of the kids from the surrounding little towns attending. I hated it. Those were some of the worst years of my life.

It wasn’t like anything specifically bad happened, I was just completely apathetic. Possibly depressed and not realizing it. Kids didn’t get depressed in those days really.

If I had any influential teachers in High School, it was probably that they stood out for all the wrong reasons.

Screenshot
Terrible picture quality, a picture my Mom sent (picture of a picture)…my sisters & I posing for a first day of school pic…I’m in the middle
Also terrible quality enhanced by the fact I took it in a moving vehicle AND it was very smoky from forest fires somewhere, taken just outside of Birch River, MB last summer, the town where I went to school Grades 1-9 (I skipped Kindergarten)

20 responses to “Straps and spanks, but I loved it”

  1. Not all who wander are lost Avatar
    Not all who wander are lost

    I only attended a school that I allowed corporal punishment once. I don’t really think it helped lol

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    1. Seems soooo old fashioned!

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  2. Oh my goodness, that’s terrible! I can’t believe a teacher actually hit you. When I was a kid our teacher has a “strap” from the old days, and he hung it next to the blackboard along with the meter stick and gym whistle. But he never used it! It was just a little intimidation, and for him, a reminder of the good old days.

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    1. It does seem wild now lol…but idk, then it was par for the course 🤷🏻‍♀️

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  3. You don’t look too happy having to go to school! My schools never had a strap, but one teacher would use a ruler on a kid’s hand if he thought the kid was behaving badly or not paying attention. Palm up, just like your school, and whack. And in high school the gym teacher kept a paddle (with holes in it) in his office and would use it on boys.

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    1. Barbaric times we grew up in lol

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  4. The nuns were the worst at my school, they were just mean and whipped us with the strap all the time. In grade 3, at one stage all the boys had to roll their trousers up to get whipped with willow on their bare calves, then our chairs were taken away and we had to kneel at our desks for a week. I’m pretty sure no parent ever found out about this.

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    1. OMG!!! That’s awful 😞
      It’s so good that times have changed and this kind of “discipline” is no longer tolerated 😳

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      1. Yeah, but then again kids these days have no tolerance for anything, I can’t really say it was bad for me. I don’t know.

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      2. It was bad!!

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  5. It’s funny all the things we didn’t barely bat an eye at that are considered completely outrageous now. Times change indeed! 😄

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  6. The paddle hung over the principal’s desk in my elementary, then in Jr. High there was a choice about whether to be paddled or have indoor suspension. We skipped school, 5 of us, and when we were brought back, 4 of us chose the indoor suspension. I can’t imagine trusting ‘the school’ to paddle my children, not just because I didn’t hit my kids, but it teaches kids to let authority figures transgress physical boundaries, to assume a receptive stance simply because they’re adults.

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    1. Exactly!!!

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  7. So many changes, yes! My first-grade teacher spanked each of us with a big paddle one time when a little girl said someone stole her lunch money. The teacher said, “If no one confesses, I will spank everyone. Stand up!” Upsetting. Emptying pockets would have been better. Ridiculous!

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    1. Yeah it’s really hard to believe now!

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      1. Yes, unbelievable!

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  8. Wow! Our teachers were the “tactical” disciplinarians… a harsh word, maybe stand over you threateningly. “Strategic” discipline was doled out by the dean who had something like a cricket bat hanging on his wall.

    “Playing recorders at the Rose Bowl” 😂🤣 You poor kids 😎

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    1. Yeah I think that’s in LA is it maybe?! But as iffffff we’d be travelling from Canada all the way there just to march in the parade playing our recorders 😂

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      1. Did you ever hear that thing where someone plays the theme from “Titanic” on a recorder… but they deliberately screw it up, with screeches and wrong notes and this awful wavering in pitch? Oh man, I crack up every time I hear it 😂

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      2. Lol no I haven’t but I can imagine how hilarious 😂

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