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Giving

Daily writing prompt
What do you do to be involved in the community?

I didn’t used to do anything. When I was in my twenties and thirties I thought that being a busy mom of three small kids and working fulltime was a good excuse to focus only on those things. I didn’t set aside any time to volunteer or help out with daycare, school or community events.

In my defense, when I was growing up, my parents didn’t really participate in any extracurricular activities or volunteer for anything either. Okay bad excuse I know, especially since my sister volunteered frequently in community events.

When my ex-husband and I separated there were times when the kids were with him, that I was so bored and lonely, I needed something to do besides go out on the town and act foolish. So I started baking for the homeless shelter and got into volunteering a bit then.

I spent my first Christmas without the kids working an evening shift at the personal care home and the morning serving food at the community Christmas dinner. Which is an all day event cooking and preparing turkey lunch and dinner and handing out donated gifts.

I haven’t been back to it in quite a few years and I really should.

Right now I sit as a board member for our crisis centre, which isn’t really a huge commitment.

Two years ago I started a non-profit that collects brand new, brand name running shoes for the kids in school way up north in the remote community where Sid is originally from.

As Sid enters Kindergarten this fall, I plan to not make the same mistakes as I did with my three older kids and actually put myself out there to help out with school functions and activities.

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At my younger sister’s wedding in 2004 I think, this gentleman & I were the maid of honour and best man…he was a police officer and a very nice guy…sadly he died in a traffic accident just over a year ago

6 responses to “Giving”

  1. Raising three kids and working definitely takes a lot of time and effort, idk if I would be able to do anything more than that or even if I could do that. I was babysitting my cousins three children and after six hours I immediately needed a nap! You’ve def got my respect

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    1. Lol thanks Rojie ☺️

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  2. Love how your journey into giving back has grown over time.
    You’ve already made such a difference—excited for what’s next with Sid!

    SoulNotesBySaku

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    1. Thank you!

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  3. That’s sad, CJ. You looked stunning, and the two of you made a very good-looking couple.

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    1. Thank you Mary, yes so tragic 😩

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