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Ice Queen

How do you balance work and home life?

I worked as a nurse for the first twenty-four years of my life, it was kind of hard to physically bring that work home, although easy to bring what’s in your head through the door.

If there’s any benefit to being a natural born ice queen, inherently cool, who easily detaches from things and loves to cut ‘n run, it would come in handy here. So no, for the most part I left work at work and home was home.

There were times when I’d find myself coming home and complaining about work but not necessarily the work itself, it was more the procedures, the management, some coworkers and I’d realize it’s time to make a change.

My current job, teaching at the College, blends with my home life like peanut butter and jelly. It couldn’t be more perfect. The days aren’t long. Weekends off (can never take that for granted after working shift work for years and years), summers off, all the holidays off.

There’s just one little part of my job that makes me quiver and that’s having to take my students out to the personal care home and hospital for the clinical portion of the course. Bye bye bankers hours. We start at 0645 hours each morning.

That does throw a bit of a wrench into mine and Sid’s morning routine as I can’t take him to daycare that early and Clint’s already at work at that time. Thankfully the girls are here and will help out with getting him up and to his “work”. Also, this only lasts three weeks so not really that big of a deal.

PS I read a quote this morning that said “Be loyal to your future, not your past”, don’t know who said it or who to give credit to, but I love it.

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That time, in one of my “I’m an independent woman” fits, I went out and bought a mini-motorhome all on my own, which we used three times and sold…here’s Sid in Sept. ’22 enjoying a smore

4 responses to “Ice Queen”

  1. i like that quote – thanks you for sharing it!

    as for the mini motorhome – really? i thought it would be the best compromise for me too between size and maintenance. i guess no matter how you cut it, it’s like having to take care of a whole extra adult huh? Mike

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    1. I pictured Sid & i driving across the country in it, going where the wind blows us…but, there’s a lot more to it than just that…plus this one was older…plus I don’t like camping anyway…plus i’m scared of mice…plus…

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      1. i didn’t blog about it but last october my oven broke and when the tech came to replace the heating element he had to move the oven into the middle of the kitchen floor and where it was before had so much mouse poop. even though i disinfected it right away, i never forgot the experience and don’t want to see mice – like ever. even the virus name sounds scary HANTAVIRUS :/

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      2. Ughhhh 🫣😳🤗🫢😲
        It’s terrifying to me because you can die just from being near their poop, like inhaling dust from it…a lady was cleaning out her garage and just died, a young mom…because of the mice!

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