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Just another Barbara

CJ Antichow
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If you had to change your name, what would your new name be?
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I think I’ve written about this umpteen times before but in case you’re just joining me, my WP handle “CJ” is the name I wanted as a kid.

My actual name is Carla, middle name Joanne.

So awfully boring and basic. The worst.

So one day when I was, I don’t know, maybe ten-ish, I announced at the supper table that going forward I wanted to be known as CJ. My family laughed. Then carried on chewing and chatting as though I hadn’t just said that.

Doomed a Carla forever.

However, in my adult life in certain workplaces and on rare occasions, CJ actually stuck. In some cases it morphed into Ceej (seej). I love that.

I’m proud of the names I’ve given my girls, Bella-Lena and Cordelia. I would’ve killed for a name like that. I’ve always thought Carla was so plain jane; just another Barbara or Kim or Debra. (Sorry if you’re reading and that’s your name, but we’re in the same boat I’m afraid).

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Paint Lake, a couple weekends back
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My baby Sid

12 responses to “Just another Barbara”

  1. Michael Williams Avatar
    Michael Williams

    oh! i like “Ceeg!”

    i’m glad the name stuck. it’s tough having a name that you don’t resonate with – thankfully we do have an opportunity to change it. i’ve toyed with the idea of a stage name the way actors and actresses have them. but it’s gotta be something crazy. i used to have a burner account on social media when i was trolling people lol. i used a p*rnstar name generator and I actually liked it haha.

    happy friday! Mike

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    1. CJ Antichow Avatar
      CJ Antichow

      Lol 😂 thanks for the laugh Mike

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  2. Matt Avatar
    Matt

    Full Name Matthew David. I hate the “thew” so prefer Matt, but I have also gone by M. And M. David

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    1. CJ Antichow Avatar
      CJ Antichow

      Matt is such a nice name!

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      1. Matt Avatar
        Matt

        Thanks

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  3. thingsihavethoughtof Avatar
    thingsihavethoughtof

    Ceejay? Ceyjey? Seajhai? Hsedjaye?

    My email starts with arjay, which was meant to be RJ for Robert James, but everyone thinks I’m Indian with Arjay, riding a Chariot with a blue guy sitting beside me (it was Arjuna in the Bhagavad Gita).

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    1. CJ Antichow Avatar
      CJ Antichow

      Yessss arjay, ceejay…tomato tomatoe

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  4. Stephanie Avatar
    Stephanie

    A young person of ambivalent gender helped me at a store yesterday. Their name was Juniper, a word I love. I understand the envy, since my first name is just a variation on my mother’s maiden name. 🙂

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    1. CJ Antichow Avatar
      CJ Antichow

      Omgsh that’s a beautiful name! On my last trip to my parents I learned our family has a history of using “August” as a first name in different forms, August, Augustine (shortened to Gussie) but both my daughter and I loved just August…she added it to her list of someday baby names lol

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      1. Stephanie Avatar
        Stephanie

        I love August too!! I was born in August so it would have been perfect. Alas. 🙂

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  5. Mary K. Doyle Avatar
    Mary K. Doyle

    You are beautiful whatever name you believe suits you best.

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    1. CJ Antichow Avatar
      CJ Antichow

      Aww thanks so much Mary, so nice of you to say! I love your name! It’s the middle name of my youngest daughter 💓

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