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A fettuccine alfredo embrace

Daily writing prompt
What strategies do you use to increase comfort in your daily life?

I don’t know, I think you have to break some rules to find comfort. At least through my eyes. I was just texting a friend now and told her I put cream in my coffee this morning instead of drinking it black AND I ate a croissant. She’s out of town helping her mom deal with the funeral arrangements for her step-dad and she admitted she’d had cream and sugar in her coffee. I told her with what she was dealing with right now, she deserved some kind of comfort.

Black coffee is better for you but there’s no comfort in it, let’s be real. Unless you’re one of those black from day one coffee drinkers like my parents. I’ve never seen them, even once, put anything in their coffee. Ever. My Dad says you’re not a true coffee lover (and also a wimp) if you aren’t drinking it black.

And let’s be real, the “comfort foods” are not the healthiest either. Nobody ever wants to dive into a bowl of lettuce or spinach after a stressful day. We want something hearty or creamy or cheesy that feels like it’s wrapped its arms around us.

Since I am not good at doing nothing and the thought of having absolutely no concrete plans for the next six weeks (while on summer break which for me started Monday), I have decided that my goals will be reading, working out and naps outside if/when I can. This comforts me. Things to do.

And tonight, at the request of one of Cordelia’s friends who is home from university, I’m making my homemade chicken fettuccine alfredo and it’s just the kind of love and comfort I need right now.

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An ollllld pic of Cordelia, Taz & I on a summer road trip, I think Bella-Lena stayed with her cousin
Okay so not quite National Geographic photo quality but this bee was HUGE! You can’t see his tail thingy but it went on and on, this thing was like the size of my thumb I’m not kidding! I have never seen such a huge bee! And immediately after I took this it came after me lol (no I did not hurt it, I never would)

16 responses to “A fettuccine alfredo embrace”

  1. i could use some fettuccine alfredo chicken right now. glad the summer break has started for you! Mike

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    1. Mike it’s sooo easy to make!

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    1. You’re absolutely right 😍

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  2. It’s true. It’s hard to limit comfort when there are so many reasons for it. I do find deep greens and rice really comforting too, somehow. It feels like medicine. 🙂

    Lovely photos. ❤

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    1. Thank you Stephanie!

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  3. Never thought about it like this. Black coffee is my comfort, but now I see another point of view.

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    1. Black coffee is your comfort?! Wow! I only drink it when I force myself and am trying to cut back on sugar.

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  4. Coffee is definitely better with a little splash of whatever suits you. If I drink coffee at home, it’s mushroom coffee with a splash of oatmilk. Doesn’t that sound delicious! 😆

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    1. Mmmm…🤭

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  5. Melbourne is the home of Flat Whites (apparently), and to me the milk is what makes it taste right. When you say ‘cream’ do you mean real milk, or even frothed up milk? I don’t think you actually mean cream when you say it, or not? I’ve used actual cream in my coffee when I’ve run out of milk, but you can really taste the fat, it’s not that nice. I know you have ‘creamer’ which is like a powder. Buy a cheapo coffee machine and practise your Barista techniques, and warm or froth your milk maybe?

    Sorry, was a bit of a rant there. Ignore if you feel the need.

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    1. Cream yeah like coffee cream, that’s what some people use in coffee, cream n sugar! It’s 18% milk fat and it’s actually called “coffee cream” on the carton. Others do use milk and I did that for years, a “double double”, which is 2 sugar/2 cream or milk. (2 tsp each essentially).
      Never used powdered anything in my coffee it grosses me out!
      I should try a frother you’re right, I don’t even own that little tool you use to froth milk. Or warm milk, I actually have never thought of that.
      Hey I could talk coffee til the cows come home Rob, thanks for the advice!

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      1. Wow, you have specialised coffee cream, interesting 🙂 18%, I wonder what it’s like. When I was in the US (a loooong time ago, 1996) it was all drippers and powdered coffee ‘creamer’ in the office. To the Americans it was just what they did.

        If you want to go all out, you can get little coffee machines, something like this (not sure if this link will work): https://www.amazon.com/DeLonghi-Espresso-Cappuccino-Stainless-EC260BK/dp/B08C96BG9H/ref=sr_1_1

        Just something to play around with for fun, but I don’t want to mess up your ritual morning 2 coffees!

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      2. I’d like to try something like that but not sure I could talk the barista of the house (Clint) into it lol…he’s more of a basic coffee-coffee kinda guy 🤔

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  6. 🙋🏻‍♂️ Guilty—black coffee from day one. And your dad is right. 😂 Just kidding. I think coffee, so long as it’s in liquid form and hot, is good for the soul.

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