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The right moves

Do you believe in the notion of “right person, wrong time”, in the context of romantic relationships? (Prompt courtesy: https://thecoffeemonsterzco.com/en-ca/blogs/midnight-blogging/journaling-prompts)

Part of me wants to say there’s no such thing as right person, wrong time. That if any part of it involves “wrong” anything, then it’s just plain wrong.

I kind of feel that if it were in fact the right person, they’d appear at the right time.

Then again I completely understand how someone who seems such a good match for you, can saunter into your life at a time when you’re unable to explore that relationship. It sucks.

Still, I feel like I’m leaning more towards the theory that the right person does in fact show up at the right time. That’s part of what makes them the right person.

Bella-Lena & I, 2016

10 responses to “The right moves”

  1. I believe the same thing. If you’re patient, the right person will show up at the right time.

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    1. Patience is the key yep!

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  2. Very beautifull pic 👌

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    1. Thank you ☺️

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  3. Absolutely agree! There is totally a right person – wrong time thing, and it absolutely sucks!
    But – if it’s meant to be – the future holds possibilities. 😊
    Have a beautiful day!

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    1. Que sera, sera!

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  4. I’ve never believed in the theory that we all have a right person. I have however been happily married for 35yrs so maybe I’m wrong 🤣

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    1. I feel like we have many “right” people, all up to fate to determine which one will blow into your life at the right moment ☺️
      Thanks for reading and commenting!

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