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The lady I called Mom

Daily writing prompt
Write about your first computer.

For some reason I remember my ex-in laws first computer better than my own. Maybe because they had one first. It seemed a very hip thing to do back then, own a personal computer.

There’s was set up on a brand new desk they had bought, solely for the computer, in the spare room. The spare room had French doors to the backyard and so it was full of light.

I don’t recall why we spent time in there with them and the computer. But I do remember vividly that Bella-Lena had already been born, although just, and my mother in law would download lots of music. She and Bella-Lena would dance.

The song they played and danced to over and over was the Kid Rock/Sheryl Crow duet Picture. You couldn’t get away from that song in 2001 and 2002. Although it was never a favourite of mine, way too sappy.

To this day whenever I hear that song, I’m taken back to that sunny room, the lady I called Mom, dancing with my firstborn in her arms, thanks to that computer.

Bella-Lena in my ex-in laws kitchen, 2002

20 responses to “The lady I called Mom”

    1. Thank you ☺️

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  1. that’s such a sweet story and the love between in-laws and bella-lena is so enduring i wish that for my daughter and her mom in law they try but haven’t found there sweet spot just yet….lol have an amazing day long live the days of downloading music on Napster lol

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    1. Napster lol yeah I forgot about that, i was thinking Limewire 😅
      I hope your daughter is able to become close with her MIL, my ex in laws were my favourite thing about my hb lol

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      1. I remember limewire too lol and that’s too funny about hb live and learn right.

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      2. Live ‘n learn ☺️🙌🏼

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  2. A bittersweet memory. It sounds like she has a special place in your heart. (I never even considered calling my MIL Mom. Not for a second, lol)

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    1. I loved her so much ❤️

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  3. Such a sweet memory woven into everyday life dancing with your little one makes the “lady I called Mom” feel so alive and unforgettable.

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  4. Such a sweet and fond memory, she sounds amazing 💕

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    1. I was very lucky to have her when I did!

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  5. This really feels like a snapshot in time—one of those memories that sticks not because of the object itself, but because of what was happening around it. I love how the computer almost fades into the background and becomes a quiet witness to that sunny room, the music, and the tenderness between your mother-in-law and your baby. Even a song you didn’t care for ends up carrying so much warmth and meaning because of that moment. It’s beautiful how something as ordinary as early downloaded music can turn into a doorway back to love, light, and a version of “home” that still lives in your senses.

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    1. Thank you ☺️

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  6. “Picture,” that’s a great song, and what a beautiful memory. Thank you for sharing. It gave me an excuse to listen to the song again. 😀

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    1. Even though i said it wasn’t my fave, by any stretch, i listened to it too after i wrote this lol, a walk down memory lane ☺️

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      1. Yes, after the song, I got Lady Gaga and Bradley Cooper singing Shallow, and then Lady Gaga with Metallica performing Moth Into Flame at the 2017 Grammys, which was awesome. I guess I’ve been listening to too much Lady Gaga lately. 😂

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      2. LOL

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