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Never again

Daily writing prompt
You’re writing your autobiography. What’s your opening sentence?

The opening sentence might be “I swore that once I grew up I’d never again live in a trailer”.

I hated living in a trailer. We tossed around the trailer trash joke with each other and though I actually never felt like trailer trash, it seemed to always hang over my head.

It probably didn’t help that two out of three of my aunts/uncles and one set of grandparents, at the time, also lived in trailers. I remember thinking what is wrong with my family, why do most of us live in trailers as opposed to houses.

Obviously, now as an adult, I couldn’t care less. I’m not embarrassed that I grew up in a trailer. A happy home is less about the size of the structure than it is the humans inside of it, and their relationships with each other. Ours was a happy home.

On Sunday, Cordelia, Sid, Baby RR and I made the almost eight hour drive to Winnipeg. About halfway there we met two large semi trucks, each hauling a brand new house trailer on it. I slowed down and made some room as we passed each other. I wondered to myself if the people, maybe families, who were waiting on those new homes were as excited to get them as we were.

I can remember the day well, when our new trailer arrived. I was in grade 9. I couldn’t believe we were getting a brand new, never lived in home. It was beautiful, even if it was a trailer. My Dad and an uncle built a porch onto it and a ‘redwood’ deck off the living room.

It really was a step up from the tiny two bedroom house the five of us had lived in up until then.

Thirty-five-ish years later my parents still live there on the farm and obviously there’s more than enough room for the two of them. The trailer served its purpose, helped raise three girls and it’s still standing.

That being said, I still maintain that I will never again live in a trailer.

Taz was more than thrilled when he was finally taller than Grampa

18 responses to “Never again”

  1. love that pic of Taz and his Grandpa!

    as for trailers, I can understand both your sentiment and later life realization about them. there are pros and cons for sure but it gets the job done in a way where it feels like it’s punching way above its weight. I remember thinking that in some ways, it was a life hack. Mike

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    1. I ‘spose it helps that my parents are “cash purchases only” kinda people lol

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  2. of course you wont . as for hellbyck hmmmmmmmmmmm

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    1. Yeah he can go back to the US, buh-bye!

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  3. not me eh? not me mr earp!

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  4. Strange that such fundamental thoughts about who you are and how you fit into the world are just based on the structure we sleep in. Amazing how these things are always in the back of our head and we are stubborn to be a certain way.

    You hear stories of people living in big houses they inherited and can’t afford, or small houses with plenty of money, but our house seems to mean a lot to us, and the social pressures that come from it, we sort of define ourselves by it.

    Anyway, Thursday morning and drinking my coffee… getting too deep! Love your writing 🙂

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    1. You’re so right Rob, I never thought of it that way 🤔
      Silly really. But I guess when you’re a kid, especially, you’re more concerned with being cool, fitting in, etc.
      As I’ve maybe said before, all the kids I knew who lived in big houses, lived in unhappy big houses 🤷🏻‍♀️
      Happy to hear you’re back on the coffee ☕️

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      1. Yeah, you’re right, it’s all about the relationships inside the house… I suppose a house is the first marker in our social heirarchy, it’s easy to hang on to for a long time.

        Yes, been on coffee a long time now, I’m really bad at keeping up with things, ESPECIALLY hard things ;-P

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      2. Aren’t we all lol
        Is it cooling off at all there yet?

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      3. Yes! Just this week it’s starting to cool down and give us some rain… for us Summer ends on March 1st and I think it hit exactly on the day.

        Hope you are starting to see some rays on sunshine during the day?

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      4. That must be a relief 🥲
        We have 11 hours of daylight now which is great for our moods lol (for the most part), daytime highs starting tomorrow are in the minus teens so that’s tolerable ☺️

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  5. Sweet photo, CJ and a heartwarming message about what makes a happy home. 💗

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    1. Thank you so much Michele!!

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      1. Thank you so much! Coincidentally, I visited an aunt a few days ago who now lives in a trailer after years of living in a large home. I felt absolute love and comfort being there. 💕

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  6. Beautiful and true perspective, CJ. “Ours was a happy home” <–everything and more.

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    1. Thank you so much Stephanie ☺️

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  7. That actually is a great opening sentence. Makes you want to read more!

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    1. Thanks Mary ☺️

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