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If you be nice

Do you think attraction is more about energy or appearance? Prompt thanks to: Just Rojie

Ooooh good question Rojie. It’s a tough one. Are we allowed to say both? A bit of both?

If not, now that I’m older and wiser, or maybe just less picky, I’d go with energy. Definitely.

You can have all the looks in the world but if the energy isn’t attractive, there’s no point.

But.

If the energy is there, the vibe is there, the attraction to someone’s personality, sense of humour and the way they treat drive-thru workers is all you need. You’ll start to find bits and pieces of them attractive, even if you didn’t at the start.

I truly believe this.

terrible quality photo of me, probably thankfully…this was ’94

4 responses to “If you be nice”

  1. no man will honestly answer this!

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    1. 😂

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  2. I think energy gets a lot more important with age. It’s easier to find physical beauty in places where I might not have seen it when I was 16. I don’t think that’s a loosening of standards, really, but rather just a greater appreciation for people.

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    1. Well said Joe, yes!

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