How would your ex(es) or former friends describe you?
I went through the first probably thirty years of my life, from age fifteen on, believing that when a man talked about his “crazy psycho bitch ex-girlfriend (or wife)”, it was legitimate.
With pretty much every single guy I met, when the subject was brought up of exes, it was the same old story. She was unstable, she had issues, she was a crazy psycho bitch. It was rare to meet someone who’d say, yeah I messed up or it just didn’t work out. I wasn’t able to give her what she wanted. We were on different paths.
I used to fall for this bolony, actually feel pity for the guy like ughh poor you, having to deal with that crazy psycho bitch. Must’ve been so stressful for you.
But then age and experience ever so slightly made me smarter. It’s just not possible for every single guy I dated to have met up with, and formed a relationship with a crazy lady.
What would I expect an ex-partner to say about me? Pretty much the same, it’s par for the course. But it’s not true.
If I’m not getting what I want from a relationship, I leave. No big deal. I’m sure many people are the same. That’s not to say that there aren’t any crazy psycho bitches out there, but, dollars to donuts, there aren’t as many as people (men) let on.
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