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Dream, dream, dream

What does your ideal life look like in 10 years?

Fairytale version: I’ve won the lottery (in real life I don’t even buy lotto tickets), and I’m living most of the year in Sooke, British Columbia, which is on the southwest tip of Vancouver Island. I’ve bought one of those condos that the kids and I stayed in last year where the entire wall that overlooks the ocean is one huge sliding glass door. Clint and I are doing the long distance thing and both completely fine with it. Sid is, of course, living out there with me. My three older kids are doing great in life and come to visit several times a year. I spend my days reading, hiking and volunteering at something.

Real life version: I’m still right here, way up north. Reminding myself everyday to bloom where I’m planted. I’m in my last year of teaching at UCN, the R word “retirement” which I’ve always dreaded is looming but I’ve got lots of projects on the go so that I won’t get bored. Sid’s in high school and the three older kids have stayed at least within the province so they bring their babies around often and we spend lots of time together.

Lately I think a lot about that meme I see on IG, “where I’ll go in my dreams when I’m 80”, all the cuddles & snuggles with my 4 babies, their babies…this is Taz, Bella-Lena & I in 2006-ish

10 responses to “Dream, dream, dream”

  1. either yard birds or zeps ten years down

    sick or dying

    no ta ask whying either eh?

    pfffffffffffffft!

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  2. Sooke must be delightful! My only experience of Vancouver Island is Victoria, even though it’s a relatively easy drive and ferry ride for me…I hope to explore more of the island someday!

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    1. Joe you HAVE to go there!! It’s about 40 minutes southwest of Victoria and stay at Sooke Point Resort!

      https://sookepointresort.ca/

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      1. I’ll check it out—thanks!

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  3. Aww both sounds great to me!

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    1. Thanks Rojie! ☺️

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  4. In some ways your real life version sounds nicer than your fairytale version. They’re both very similar with the exception of winning the lottery and having that really cool sounding glass door overlooking the ocean. But the important stuff – where your heart is – is in both which is really nice. If you don’t want to retire can’t you continue teaching for a couple more years?z

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    1. Thanks Michael! I did not see it the way you saw it until now. You’re right.
      Umm and yes I will work until they wheel me out the door in my wheelchair and say don’t come back!

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  5. Spill, Who is Clint?

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    1. Lol he’s my bf, my common-law!

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