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The balance

How would your former teachers describe you?

In elementary school, I was pretty timid. Just as I am now in life within a new group of people, I’m quiet in the beginning, taking time to read the room and figure out what’s what and who is whom. So that’s how I spent the first four to five years in school. Quietly watching.

By junior high I was pretty comfortable with my peers. We had basically the same group of kids from grade one (well kindergarten for everyone else but I skipped it and went straight into grade one) until grade nine.

I was definitely not the class clown but I knew when to throw a quip in there to make everyone laugh.

I know I’ve probably mentioned this more than several times but, *a-hem* I was voted the Valedictorian in grade 9. My marks were straight A’s, which our parents expected of us I think (my sisters and I). It was unspoken but it just seemed the thing to do and I had no trouble accomplishing that.

High school was a completely different scenario though. I wasn’t troublesome in the classroom, never really gave the teachers a hard time but I was completely apathetic and all I cared about was passing marks, so I could graduate and get the heck out of there.

College was overall a pretty good experience and I liked my instructors, I studied hard but made sure I left plenty of time for partying. I had the balance down-pat I think.

My sisters & I (I’m far left)

7 responses to “The balance”

  1. I’m sure they thought you were great, like we do. πŸ™‚

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    1. Aww thank you ☺️

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    thetravelingtaylorsofficial

    The ‘quietly watching, reading the room’ opener really resonates β€” that early-years instinct does seem to stick around for life (I’m exactly the same in any new group). I also loved the arc from straight-A valedictorian to ‘just give me passing marks so I can leave’ in high school; that apathy era is so real. Sounds like you had the balance properly figured out by college.

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    1. Thank you for your thoughts and especially for reading ☺️

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  3. ahh i love how you had a great balance during your schooling years!

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    1. High school felt a bit like a rocky road but i’m sure that’s par for the course πŸ€·πŸ»β€β™€οΈ

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