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Boy Bands

What nervous habit(s) do you have?

I was thinking that I don’t actually have any nervous habits and that I sure notice them on other people but I do do that leg swinging thing a lot.

I’m not sure if it’s nervousness though, or is it simply something to do, a way of moving while sitting still.

And by leg swinging, I mean that when I sit with my legs crossed, I swing the top leg back and forth. It sounds and seems strange to describe but it’s probably fairly universally common.

I actually had a dream a few weeks ago that I was in a mall, there was also a boy band in the mall and one of the members kept trying to hit on me, (my kids died laughing when I told them this dream, I said you can’t help what you dream!! No I’m not secretly wishing for someone from a boy band to flirt with me, I don’t even like younger guys and never did ok!!! But still they called me a pick-me).

Anyway, in the dream I’m walking through the mall and this one kid (from a famous boy band) won’t leave me alone, complimenting me and trying to flirt with me. I said bro I’m old enough to be your mom and then he said that he noticed me sitting down and liked the way I was swinging my leg back and forth.

The ridiculousness of dreams, omg.

My sisters & I (I’m in the middle), I loved these cozy pj’s but actually my feet used to sweat so badly that Mom thought I had athlete’s foot one time so she started cutting the feet off of my pj’s so they could breathe

18 responses to “Boy Bands”

    1. Not really lol

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  1. I have been having LOT of dreams lately…and they’re “out there” enough that I joy them down in the morning…then trying to figure out connections.

    nervous habits…I’ve noticed that I’ll get up and pace…maybe do laps of the kitchen island or dining room…

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    1. Oh that’s interesting. That be too much work for me lol

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  2. Like you said, you can’t help what you dream! Still, I hope it didn’t feel like the worst thing in the world to be hit on by a hot young guy from a boy band …

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    1. Well i’d prefer an old washed up rock ‘n roller 😂

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      1. Haha…oh, boy…

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  3. You can’t help what you dream, for sure, and I’ve even woken up pissed off at Himself for something he was doing or saying in my dream, and it took quite a while awake before I could let go of the anger even though I knew better! Then again, dreams have a way of telling you something true, if only we can translate their symbolic language into our own.
    I most enjoy dreams where I have a new lover, once I remind myself it’s a dream and I don’t have to feel disloyal, unfaithful, guilty, or as if Himself will be hurt.

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    1. Oooh spicy dreams!! I’d love to have one of those!

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  4. You might have a lot of “nervous energy” — my dad’s feet were always moving, even when he was sitting down, and mine are the same. A marriage counsellor I was seeing for the first time wondered if I’d ever been diagnosed with ADHD when she noticed. Talk about jumping to conclusions! But I wonder.

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    1. It is definitely an anxiety thing yep!

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  5. Haha. So glad you shared the dream!! I think it shows that it’s often the ‘weird’ things about us that are endearing to others/stand out. 🙂

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    1. So funny 😂

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  6. 😂 Wow, that was a weird dream. When I’m nervous and sitting down, I tend to either grab a pen or clasp my hands together. When I’m standing, I usually put my hands in my pockets. Weird, I know, but at least it doesn’t happen often.

    I have to say that the three of you look super cute in that photo. Is your big sister wearing some kind of robe or something? Pretty classy and sophisticated.

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    1. I’m sure there’s nearly nobody who doesn’t have at least one nervous habit!
      Lol yes it does look pretty fancy, the silky quilted robe lol

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      1. Don’t forget the pink…”the silky quilted pink robe.” 😀

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  7. That’s a funny story about the dream and a nice picture of you and your sisters.

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    1. Thank you Michael!

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